Key points
- Workplace harassment under Australian law requires repeated unreasonable behaviour: the pattern matters more than any single incident.
- A contemporaneous incident diary is one of the most valuable pieces of evidence, so write notes immediately after each event.
- Store records off company systems on a personal device or account the employer cannot access.
- Provide HR and lawyers with a complete, unedited record, as curated records raise credibility questions.
- For harassment received by message or email, an automatic archive is more reliable than manual screenshot collection.
A friendly note: This guide shares general information to help you understand your options. It isn’t legal advice, and it can’t tell you what to do in your own situation. For that, a lawyer or a free legal service is the best next step, and you’ll find some in Where to get help.
Documentation matters a great deal in workplace harassment complaints. A well-documented record of repeated behaviour, preserved contemporaneously and stored securely, gives HR departments and employment lawyers much more to work with. Without one, even serious behaviour can be hard to act on.
This guide explains what workplace harassment is under Australian law, why documentation matters so much, what to record and how, and the mistakes that undermine otherwise valid claims. If you work in the US, our guide to documenting workplace harassment in the US is written for you.
What counts as workplace harassment
In everyday terms, workplace bullying is behaviour towards a worker or group of workers that is repeated, unreasonable and harmful to health or safety. Australian workplace laws, including the Fair Work system, usually look at things like:
- Repeated. A single incident is not usually treated as bullying (though some other kinds of harassment, such as sexual harassment, can involve a single serious incident). The repeated nature of the behaviour is what distinguishes bullying from a difficult interaction.
- Unreasonable. The behaviour is not what a reasonable person would consider appropriate management or workplace direction. Ordinary, fairly handled management (performance reviews, workload direction, workplace changes) is generally not bullying even if the affected worker finds it distressing.
- Risk to health and safety. The behaviour causes psychological or physical harm, or creates a reasonable risk of it.
Sexual harassment is treated separately and can involve a single incident if it is serious enough. Harassment based on race, age and other personal characteristics is covered by anti-discrimination laws.
Why documentation makes or breaks claims
HR processes and legal proceedings about workplace harassment are fundamentally about competing accounts. The person making the complaint says this happened. The person complained about says it didn’t, or says it was something different. Without a contemporaneous record, it comes down to credibility.
A well-maintained record changes this dynamic. It provides:
- Evidence that specific incidents occurred on specific dates
- A demonstrated pattern of repeated behaviour over time
- Names of witnesses who can be asked to corroborate
- Your contemporaneous emotional response, which is evidence of impact
- A timeline that HR or an investigator can follow
Employment lawyers consistently report that the cases they can act on most effectively are those where the person has kept detailed, contemporaneous notes from early in the situation, not cases where they come to a lawyer months later, relying only on memory.
What to record
Your record should capture three types of information:
Written communications
Emails, text messages, instant messages through workplace platforms, and any other written communication that forms part of the behaviour or its context. For each:
- Preserve the original with metadata (not just a screenshot) (if the messages come to a FenceChat address, the Message Archive keeps the originals for you)
- Note who sent it, who received it, and who was copied
- Keep copies in a personal, private email account, if your employer’s policy allows forwarding work email
Incident diary entries
For incidents that don’t occur in writing (comments in meetings, exclusion from conversations, behaviour at social events), write a note as immediately as possible. Include:
- Date, time, and location
- What was said or done, as precisely as you can recall, with exact words where possible
- Who was present (full names if known)
- How you responded
- How the incident affected you (anxiety, difficulty sleeping, inability to concentrate)
- Any witnesses who might corroborate
Supporting records
Medical records, counsellor notes, or GP visits connected to the impact of the behaviour; HR complaints and responses; any performance reviews or disciplinary processes that seem connected to the behaviour; and any communications with trusted colleagues about the situation.
How to store records safely
This is the point where many people make a critical error. Records stored on company devices or in company email accounts can be accessed by the employer. In some circumstances, employers have deleted records or restricted access at the point when a complaint is made.
- Store all records on a personal device and in a personal account
- Use a personal email address (not your work address) to store or forward evidence
- Use a strong, unique password on that account that has never been shared with a colleague
- Keep a backup in a second location: a USB drive at home, a secure cloud storage account, or with your lawyer
- Do not access company documents you aren’t authorised to view; focus on evidence directed at or from you
Common mistakes that undermine records
- Starting too late. Many people begin documenting only after a serious escalation. Start from the first incident that concerns you, even if you’re not sure yet whether it constitutes harassment.
- Curating the record. Providing only the most alarming messages, and omitting your own responses or messages that show you in a less flattering light, raises credibility questions and can leave gaps that undermine the record. Provide everything to your lawyer and let them advise on what to use.
- Relying only on memory. Memory is unreliable, especially under stress. Written contemporaneous notes made on the day of an incident are far stronger than a later reconstruction.
- Not naming witnesses. If three people were in a room when something was said, name all three. Even if you don’t intend to call them as witnesses, their names show HR that corroboration is available.
- Discussing the record at work. Don’t tell colleagues you’re keeping a record, and don’t document on company time using company devices. Keep it entirely separate from your work environment.
Using your record with HR, lawyers, and Fair Work
When you bring a complaint to HR, an employment lawyer, or the Fair Work Commission, present your record as a complete document: a timeline with the full incident diary, attached communications, and supporting records organised chronologically. A document that an HR officer or investigator can read and follow is far more useful than a folder of screenshots.
An employment lawyer can explain which next steps fit your situation. In Australia, these can include internal complaint processes, an application to the Fair Work Commission for an order to stop bullying, a discrimination complaint to the Australian Human Rights Commission or a state equivalent, or (in serious cases) a WorkCover claim for psychological injury. In the US, they can include an internal complaint or a charge with the EEOC or a state agency; see our US guide.
Where to get help
These services are free or low-cost. If you or someone else is in danger, call your local emergency number first.
Australia
Work
- Fair Work Ombudsman Information on bullying and harassment at work.
- Safe Work Australia Workplace health and safety, including psychosocial hazards.
Free or low-cost legal help
- National Legal Aid Find free legal help in your state or territory.
- Law Council of Australia Links to each state law society, which can refer you to a lawyer.
Someone to talk to
- Lifeline Crisis support and suicide prevention, any time. 13 11 14.
- Beyond Blue Support for anxiety, stress and low mood. 1300 22 4636.
If you feel unsafe
- Emergency: 000 Police, ambulance or fire, if you or someone else is in danger.
- 1800RESPECT Free, confidential counselling for family, domestic and sexual violence, any time. 1800 737 732.
United States
Work
- EEOC: Harassment Federal information on workplace harassment and how to file a charge.
- OSHA: Workplace violence Federal information on preventing workplace violence.
Free or low-cost legal help
- Legal Services Corporation Find free civil legal aid near you.
- LawHelp.org Free legal information and help, by state.
Someone to talk to
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or text 988 for crisis support, any time.
If you feel unsafe
- Emergency: 911 Police, ambulance or fire, if you or someone else is in danger.
- National Domestic Violence Hotline Free, confidential support, any time. Call 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788.
United Kingdom
Work
- Acas Free advice on workplace rights and disputes. 0300 123 1100.
Free or low-cost legal help
- Citizens Advice Free, confidential advice on legal and everyday problems.
- Law Society: Find a Solicitor Find a solicitor near you.
Someone to talk to
- Samaritans Someone to talk to, any time. Call 116 123.
- Mind Mental health information and support.
If you feel unsafe
- Emergency: 999 Police, ambulance or fire, if you or someone else is in danger.
- National Domestic Abuse Helpline Free, confidential support, any time. 0808 2000 247.
Frequently asked questions
What counts as workplace harassment legally?
Under Australian law, workplace harassment (also called workplace bullying) is repeated, unreasonable behaviour directed at a worker or group of workers that creates a risk to health and safety. This includes belittling, humiliating, threatening, intimidating, or excluding someone at work. A single incident, even if serious, is generally not workplace bullying: the repeated nature is key. Sexual harassment is treated separately and can involve a single serious incident.
How do I report workplace harassment in Australia?
You can report to HR, your manager (if they’re not the harasser), a union representative, or externally to the Fair Work Commission. Workers covered by the national system can apply to the Fair Work Commission for an order to stop bullying. You can also contact your state’s workplace safety regulator (WorkSafe Victoria, SafeWork NSW, etc.).
Can I use work emails as evidence of workplace harassment?
Often, yes. Work emails sent to you are commonly used as evidence, and an employment lawyer can tell you how they fit your situation. Many people keep copies in a personal, private account, but some employers’ policies limit forwarding work email, so check your policy or ask an employment lawyer or union first. Be careful about accessing or copying emails from others’ accounts or from shared drives you’re not supposed to access. Focus on communications directed to or from you.
Should I keep a harassment diary?
Yes. A contemporaneous record is one of the most valuable pieces of evidence. Write notes immediately after each incident, recording the date, time, location, what was said or done, who was present, and how you responded. Store these notes off company systems, on a personal device or email.
What mistakes do people make when documenting workplace harassment?
The most common mistakes are: starting to document only after a significant incident rather than from the beginning; storing records on company devices or accounts the employer can access; providing a curated rather than complete record to HR or lawyers; not noting the names of witnesses; and deleting messages that show your own emotional responses, which are actually part of the evidence of impact.